My Story

Early Years — Discovering My Voice

I fell in love with writing and speaking as a child. Even then, God was shaping my gifts long before I understood how He would use them.

Young Adulthood — Lessons Learned the Hard Way

I made choices that left me broken, confused, and searching for identity. I became a three‑time overcomer of shacking up — and those experiences became the soil where God planted wisdom, healing, and purpose.

The Turning Point — From Pain to Purpose

Instead of hiding my story, I surrendered it. God showed me that my failures weren’t final — they were fuel. He taught me how to break cycles, rebuild boundaries, and trust His timing.

Becoming an Author — Sharing the Truth Out Loud

I wrote bestselling books, including Just Sex Is Not a Relationship, a powerful, true‑story‑inspired novel spanning four generations. It became a bold call to action for women of all ages. Stepping Into Influence — Raising Up Young Women

My past became my platform. I began speaking, mentoring, and encouraging women to change their mindset about intimacy triggers, identity, and self‑worth.

Next Level Mentoring — The Calling Becomes Clear

God placed it on my heart to create a safe, faith‑rooted space for teen girls and college‑bound young women. A place where they can be honest, ask real questions, and grow without judgment.

Today — Walking With Young Women Into Their Next Level

Through mentorship, writing, and the Monica Mentors Podcast, I help young women build emotional clarity, navigate relationships with discernment, and step into independence with confidence rooted in faith.